Thinking of Cowboy Ray!

And I like dogs too!
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Nice to relax and hang out after working out

Will he open the towel?  

Next week last of the series.

What Oil?

So now you get the idea, the best thing to do is to take your time and enjoy.
Use nice oil. I use coconut oil as it is slick and better. Does not stain.
Does not dry out so fast. You can use similar oil.
Of course when massaging your cock the first time with new oil,
your brain is saying ... What the Fuck?
You might not get an erection the first time because of this.
Your brain is wondering where is your usual lube, so do not panic!
Just take your time, breathe into your cock and other parts of your body that turns you on.
For now skip your hot hole.
Spend an hour, as most men do not spend lots of time nor like themselves.
We have been trained to think that way too.
So we have to say fuck em, and enjoy our body in private.
Just take your time enjoying no matter what happens.
I can honestly tell you that my first time with another man massaging my cock,
I was not hard or very hard, so it's normal.
My problem was bring my walls down and opening up, in this case, spreading my legs.
Learning to receive the pleasure.
I know back then my brain was wondering what the hell was I doing.
I have trained my brains since and enjoy receiving a massage.
So back to you give yourself a nice erotic massage.
You can always jack off the next night, as I encourage you to keep the cum inside you.
Enjoy!

Hot Hunk of the Year? Part 2/4

He is thinking about calling me for a massage!

When starting Sex, Always start with lots of foreplay!

It is more fun to go slow so you can enjoy it more.

Get into the breathing and rub cocks together.

This allows the bottom to relax his fuck hole so he can take it.

If you continue breathing, you both might enjoy it lots more.

Very Busy in the Back Room! The Leather Bar is full!

More of my friend exercising!

Next ... Locker room pics

and did you see him posing last Monday?

Look back.

Tantric Thursdays

From now on, my weekly updates are on Thursdays, so this encourages you to practice on the weekend.

Mondays are blah days.

After a week of practice and I hope you had a good time with yourself. Now to add another step and this is very important. This exercise is used with mediation and yoga. It is called breathing. We tend to hold our breathe when we are having sex with men or jacking off. With breathing, this will add to the orgasm and make it better. With time we can become multi orgasmic! There is a book out called “The Multi Orgasmic Man.” Buy it! It is worth it. We know women can if men make it last longer for them. We have been taught there is no such thing. I have experienced it and it is amazing. Now when I pleasure myself, I can go without cumming for weeks. My Choice. 

When pleasuring yourself as I mentioned before, you take slow deeper breaths, and relax. You might have to be aware of breathing in deeper almost like forcing yourself to breathe deeper. We all tend to be shallow breathers. So taking in deeper breaths and relax on the exhale is how you do it. Remember you do not force the breath out.

Try it for awhile, so how long it last, take deeper breaths and relax while self pleasuring. 

Again, No hurry or pressure in doing this as make this a fun “homework”

Then it becomes a stroke and massage focus not cum focus again!

After you do this, then you can mediate if you do that. See if there is a difference. 

Do some yoga before you do self pleasuring. 

Hot Hunk of the Year? Part 1/4

Updates are on Thursdays from now on!

Gonna call it Tantric Thursdays.

He's going to wait til then and in the mean time,

he will do his homework!

Muscled Mondays!!

Get ready for Spring!

Thanks to Pete modelling ....

Here are some ideas!!

Hot eh?

Also thinking of LPB as he likes this! 

Hope he is doing well!

Saw this and thought of Cowboy Ray

Golden Phallus free this weekend

I was able to download this free kindle book if you have a kindle.
He is a good writer and talks about the joys of having a phallus!

The link is here

Get your free copy!!

Saw this hot man at the back room in the leather bar! Then he seemed to have disappeared.

I was disappointedcuz I thought he was cute.
I hung around and saw the usual stuff sex pigs do in the back room,
then had to go to the toilet, as soon as I was pissing,
I hear the stall door opened and surprise!
There he is!

Just having another typical Saturday night at the leather bar!

What's he looking at? Pig!

Naked Night At the Leather Bar!

The back room is for naked men only.

He has been in the back room since this afternoon,

waiting for you!

GOLDEN PHALLUS is FREE to Kindle readers on March 17th & 18th

His new book The Secret of the Golden Phallus: Male Erotic Alchemy for the 21st Century is Now Available at Amazon andon March 17th and 18th it will be free to Kindle readers!

I highly recommend buying this as Bruce has done lots of work in this area.

I am going to try and get it on Saturday as I have a Kindle Account.

You men might want to try.

I will try to let you know if I did manage to get this.

Rick

It's Torn Jeans Tuesday in the Back Room! And other Torn clothing!

Sharing ponts of view from others.

On this blog I thought it was interesting what he said, please check it out and share with him or here. Thank you
Whack Attack

Also watch for Enhanced Masculinity
He always has some amazing points of views to give us something to think about!

More on Tantric

Tantra comes from the Taoist way of thinking. So of course the Christian would not create tantra and I really believe they know about it which is why they try to make us feel guilty about jacking. If we all did tantra and talk about it, it enhances our intuition and lets us be more in touch with our spirit. Then we would not need the church and leave. Mind you, Church attendance is at it’s lowest ever, at least in Canada. 

So what do we do to get in touch with our sex and spirit if you are willing? First and foremost we have to retrain our brain. Just like when you quit smoking, do not sit in your favourite chair reaching for your cigarettes. So do not go to your usual spot to self pleasure as that is what we are going to call it to re train our brain. Call it what ever you like, but do not say it’s time to jack off or the brain will get it organized for you. Lets say you go to bed to jack off. Next time sit in your lazy boy, or similar, and massage your cock. Do not jack or hold your cock the usual way. That gets your brain in the usual program as we are trying to reprogram our brains. When we sit in a different spot and massage our cocks, our brain is wondering what is going on. There you have it! We are telling our brains we want something different so pay attention, as this is how I want to do it. So continue to massage your cock, balls, nipples and other sensitive areas of your body. Make this session a Massage focus than cum focus. Note I said to massage other areas of your body? Most men focus on their cocks only. Have you noticed your nipples gets pissed off when not touched. Oh sure some of you do, but most of you just jack. So add to your cock massage, other areas of pleasure. Explore what else turns you on. Find out who you are! Lots of men do not like themselves or their bodies, so this gives us a chance to explore and learn to love ourselves as Jesus ask us to do. (BTW, rumors has it Jesus went to Asia for awhile to learn tantra and came back to hang out with not one but 12 men. Go figure)

After say about 30 minutes you can do some stroking or edging. But do not cum. When you are getting close, stop. With edging we tend to go right back to jacking to bring ourselves to the edge again and go crazy. Instead, massage and touch yourselves all over. Then go back to stroking and edging. Some men will find this takes too long. The first time I would give this at least 30 minutes til you get used to it. Then go for an hour. On other times, just jack off like you normally do. So you can continue doing this without driving yourself crazy. You might think is it possible to stop going crazy? Yes! I can do it and I know of lots of men can do it, so it just take time and re training our brains.

Lets have fun with ourselves. Some men might not be able to do this and will skip this and that’s fine. This blog is not for those men. But for you reading, stay tuned!

Full Moon Out? These guys are going wild in the back room tonight!

My Friend submits his pics

Thank you Pete!